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Words by Emily
What mental illness(es) are you currently living with?
I have PTSD from childhood which mostly manifests right now as hyper-vigilance, but which has also caused (and sometimes still causes) depression and anxiety at different times in my life.
What’s one thing you want others to know about your mental illness?
First of all, PTSD doesn’t always come from one traumatic event – it can also come from a sustained unsafe situation that can be harder to put your finger on.
But more importantly, my hyper-vigilance makes me really productive, acutely tuned to social situations, and constantly adjusting. In other words, it’s completely invisible to others unless I tell them.
People often think I really “have it together”.
It can be extremely isolating and painful to have a mental illness that’s invisible to others.
What’s one thing you’re seeking to unlearn about the mental illness(es) you live with?
I want to unlearn that I am in constant danger. So, so badly.
What’s one piece of advice you’d give to someone who loves a person living with a mental illness, and wants to support them?
This is so hard. On one hand I want to say: please, please be patient. Please.
On the other hand I want to say: it is ok to kindly, gently (and in appropriate moments) remind me that my illness is affecting you. My illness’s affect on my loved ones is one of the biggest motivators to take care of myself and manage it.
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