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How Not to Give Up When You’re Discouraged

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They call them the microwave generation. 

Always expectant of instant gratification, feeling anxious whenever they don’t get a text response within ten minutes. Are they mad at me? What could they possibly be doing right now? OH MY GOSH…something went wrong!

Or how about the ones who get dismayed when they don’t go viral. When their business hasn’t taken off or when they’ve applied to a couple of jobs and haven’t landed anything. Am I incompetent? Should I just stay small and stop playing myself? 

Consider the ones who gave up for a season when someone said a discouraging word. That’s what happened with, rapper, T-Pain. R&B singer Usher was a major part of the reason T-Pain spiraled into a 4-year depression. Usher told T-Pain he wasn’t worth it, that his music was trash, and that he was making it harder for others to come up. 

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A few takeaways from these vignettes: 

At the end of the day, we really need to back up and ask ourselves, “Where am I getting these messages from?” We get to investigate, unpack, and do our due diligence. 

It’s about confronting the truth.

These are difficult questions to answer, especially when we’re fixated on wanting instant clarity, or when we’ve quit before the lesson began. The best next steps are unclear when we listen to others without first quieting ourselves, entering into a place of discernment, and seeking God’s will for our lives. 

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It might be time for you to pause what you’re doing in order to get clearer on what God wants for you. Stay prayerful. Ask for guidance. Seek out the people who’ve been where you want to go. 

I remember getting upset when my wife prayed for God to close doors to things that weren’t good for us. For opportunities that sent us down the wrong path. All I heard was: please close all the doors. But, I was wrong. Pride was in the way. Fear was there too. Fortunately, I wisened up. I got clear on what she was praying. And I joined in too.

If we really want to get where God has ordained and destined us to be, then we have to be bold enough to say: “It’s not my will. It’s yours” 

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